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General Category => General Discussion => Deeper Fellowship => Topic started by: Alpine on November 14, 2008, 10:53:08 am

Title: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Alpine on November 14, 2008, 10:53:08 am
(Apparently my sister in law is about to have her second abortion)


I guess the 'goodbye' email you sent me means it's over. You have or about to have an abortion. I want you to know that I will always love you and the kids, and I will always be there for Kate and Kayden. But Tammy, I can not just sit by and pretend it is okay for you to kill a child that has every right to be given a chance to live. I can not pretend that it doesn't KILL me know that you took another life. Yeah sure, you said you had a abortion before, and yeah, it pisses me off. But this is different. I have given you 3 other options and you chose the selfish one. (give me the baby, let someone else have the baby, or keep him for yourself). It is not okay, and if I had my way abortion would be illegal.

Imagine taking Kayden to a Dr and having them kill him. STicking something deep in the back of his neck and into his brain stem, then having them pull his limbs off piece by piece. THEN, throwing him in a garbage can, possibly still alive, to die a painful death. It's the same thing.

The baby you have or about to have aborted could've been the one to cure cancer or aids. He/she could've been president or a general. He/she could of been a dr/lawyer or a country singer. YOU are the selfish one... and right now I hate you for this!
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: The Lord is my banner on November 14, 2008, 11:56:17 am
Oh Lord, give grace to this whole family today.  :(

That little one is in His hands now, but you who are left dealing with this aftermath need healing to flow between you.
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Alpine on November 14, 2008, 12:47:07 pm
My wife's sister is a drug addict and abusive mother. The father is a drug dealer. She wants to abort the baby. My wife is so hurt over this since we have no kids (not by choice) and yet here is her own sister killing her own kids...
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Pete on November 14, 2008, 01:13:18 pm
I don't even know what to say...

Praying for your whole family.
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Wordsmith on November 14, 2008, 01:58:07 pm
 I can't even imagine all the hurt that's
being experianced  here. But I am praying for
your family, especially that God intervene in the
little childs life.
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Alpine on November 14, 2008, 04:17:31 pm
thanks guys
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: sharonl on November 14, 2008, 04:28:15 pm
Alpine - please send her this poem - it has save more than one baby.

GOD NEVER LOSES EVEN ONE


Oh little one within the womb
Our Heavenly Father did not send you to earth to meet your doom.


Your pathway has been carefully planned and designed.
Whether you walk it out on the earth or spend it with Jesus all will be fine.


The Word tells us Jesus knew you before you were born.
He tells us your days have been recorded in the book of life
where pages are never torn.


Some of you have been discarded and called just "tissue."
Don't worry little one - with God that's not an issue.


Our Father's plans for you will not go astray.
How precious your life is we will still convey.


If you are allowed to complete your journey here on the earth,
Either way my child your existence is recorded as a birth.


If you have not been allowed to minister to those our Father designed for you here,
Your place with Jesus has already been marked for you so have no fear.


Jesus tells us the angels will teach you the oracles of God and His ways.
He will prepare you and you will still recognize and welcome that mother and father in only a few days.


Forgiveness is waiting for those whose heart is heavy for the deeds they have done.
For you see sweet child
God Never Loses even One


~~Sharon Lambkin~~
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Pete on November 14, 2008, 04:30:24 pm
Wow.  That is such a beautiful poem, Sharon.

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Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: flaglady on November 15, 2008, 07:01:33 pm
**sigh** poor poor baby.
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Preacherchick99 on November 19, 2008, 07:30:55 pm
This makes me sad......Poor baby.

At least they will be up in Heaven.

I speak peace and healing over your family Alpine...
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: churchlady on November 20, 2008, 12:32:22 am
All I can say to this depth of sadness is 'Come, Lord Jesus, come.'
Title: Re: Something my wife just wrote my sister-in-law
Post by: Alpine on November 20, 2008, 10:21:26 am
Thanks guys.

The situation is still up in the air. I don't think she has had an abortion yet, but I know my wife and her sister have tried speaking sense into the sister planning an abortion, but she is not only upset but lashing out at everybody. So much so that her sisters will not talk to her.

Messy situation all around.